Holidays are magical—late mornings, relaxed routines, family visits, and unlimited playtime. But when school reopens, many parents face the same challenge: tears, tantrums, and resistance every morning.
If your child suddenly says, “I don’t want to go to school”, you’re not alone—and no, it doesn’t mean they dislike learning.
Why Kids Struggle After Holidays
Young children thrive on routine, but holidays break that structure completely. Late bedtimes, more screen time, travel, and constant excitement overload their little systems.
When school restarts, children may feel:
Overwhelmed by structure
Tired due to disturbed sleep cycles
Emotionally attached to holiday comfort
Anxious about separation again
This adjustment phase is normal, especially for preschoolers.
Talk About School Positively
Avoid phrases like:
❌ “Stop crying, school is normal.”
❌ “Everyone goes to school, you have to.”
Instead, try:
✔️ “I know holidays were fun. School will be fun too.”
✔️ “You’ll see your friends and teachers again.”
Children absorb our emotions more than our words.
Give Emotional Reassurance
Extra hugs, a few minutes of cuddling, or letting your child carry a comfort object (like a soft toy or favorite water bottle) can help them feel secure.
Let them express feelings without judgment:
“You miss being at home. That’s okay. I’m here.”
How Duscha Helps Children Adjust Smoothly
At Duscha Preschool, we expect post-holiday emotions—and we prepare for them.
Our teachers:
Welcome children warmly with familiar activities
Avoid pressure on the first few days
Use storytelling, music, and free play to ease transitions
Offer extra attention to children who feel anxious
We focus on emotional safety before academics, because a relaxed child learns better.
👉 This gentle approach helps children regain confidence and joy in coming to school.
Celebrate Small Wins
Did your child enter the classroom without crying today? That’s progress.
Did they talk about a friend after school? That’s a win.
Celebrate effort, not perfection:
“I’m proud of you for trying today.”
Positive reinforcement builds emotional resilience.
Final Thoughts: This Phase Will Pass
Post-holiday adjustment doesn’t last forever. With patience, routine, and emotional support, children bounce back—often stronger and more confident than before.
At Duscha Preschool, we walk this journey with parents.
If you’re looking for a preschool that understands emotions, routines, and gentle transitions, we’d love to connect with you.
📞 Visit us, talk to our teachers, or explore admissions to see how Duscha supports your child’s everyday growth.
